01.20.06
Posted in Sexual Guides at 1:11 am by Fazman
The path to having a truly fulfilling relationship is totally intertwined with having a healthy sexual connection with your partner.
A fulfilling sex life is critical to overall human health. It makes for a great means to connection and intimacy, but also acts as a source of stress relief and yes, even exercise! The physical and emotional challenges of our daily lives make sex a welcome little ‘rest stop’ on the road of life, as long as we share the right connection with someone.
Some of the keys to creating a healthy sexual connection include understanding of your partner’s body and how it works, how to ignite and sustain desire between you, and keeping the feelings between you open and intimate. Communication is always important, especially when you have unresolved tension between you over some event or ongoing ‘thing’. Talking these things out is vital to the health of the relationship, and therefore contribute to a healthy sexual connection.
Another important issue is the area of sexual taboos. Most of us have an internal set of rules that tells us what is ok or not in the bedroom. Sometimes early life experiences can affect people’s sexuality in adulthood. It can be very hard to break though these barriers, and can be frustrating to the partner who wants to experiment more. Openness and communication, plus a heck of a lot of patience and understanding are needed to allow these issues to get worked out. Sometimes an experienced therapist can make the difference.
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01.18.06
Posted in Sexual Guides at 6:04 am by Fazman
Other keys to female fulfillment
Fun and Fantasy Whoever said that the brain is the main sexual organ wasn’t kidding. Fact is that many people, male and female, have their own private little fantasy going on during sex, and perhaps the partner isn’t even aware of it. If imagining she’s boffing all the Knights of the Round Table really gets her going, whether the partner is in on the fantasy directly or not, great. Other people enjoy indulging in fantasies full-on, complete with role playing, props or whatever. And of course, whatever styles, techniques or levels of intensity fuel her fire, it’s worth attempting.
Magic Ingredients
More and more couples are discovering new lubes and even herbal boosters for her libido. Having Sex or Having the Big One gives a good rundown of the options out there. Natural stimulants can make a huge difference to each of the stages of sexual response.
That Thing She Does with Her Mouth
You know, talking. Ohhhh yes, you’ve heard it before, but it’s absolutely true: the psychology of the situation is a main determinant of the quality of her orgasm or even her ability to achieve it. Great lovers throughout history have used this guiding principle: everything is lovemaking. That is, the way you speak to her at breakfast or on the phone, the way you make a kind gesture, the way you tell her how you feel (assuming it’s a little bit ‘o nice-nice and not a rant) – all of this is foreplay. All serves to contribute to her security in the relationship and confidence, which clearly opens up her ability to trust a man and trust her own body.
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01.16.06
Posted in Sexual Guides at 7:52 am by Fazman
Orgasm 101 * Enhanced *
All women have the capability of enjoying sex and orgasm on that outrageous level.
Have Sex, or Have the Big One — You Decide.
A guide to the difference between sex and extraordinary orgasm for women
Here’s a question that has plagued medical science for ages: if sexual pleasure for both males and females is the evolutionary guarantee that they’ll get together and procreate, why isn’t female orgasm as much of a foregone conclusion as men’s?
Recent studies indicate that female orgasm does, indeed, contribute to the likelihood of conception. Her orgasmic contractions may serve to help propel sperm toward her eggs, and some are heartened to think that a biological basis for female pleasure means somehow it’s OK to spend more time, resources and research on it. Be that as it may, female orgasm has always been in the category of “Nice, but not necessary.â€Â
If one is talking about reproduction only, that is.
If we’re talking about individuals or couples experiencing something on the divine sexual plane, however, all that becomes irrelevant. The point is, extraordinary, other-worldly pleasure is possible for women – and in that case, why not go for it?
The super-sexual woman
Most of us know women who are all about sex – always wanting it, getting it, enjoying it and, sometimes to our irritation, bragging about it. These exotic creatures talk about orgasm every time, in every position, with any partner, and it’s always off-the-charts. Though we’re tempted to say, “yeah, bullshit†to their Big Talk, the fact is that it’s true – there absolutely are women who have it, love it, and fly with it on a regular basis.
In some ideal world, where there is no hormonal imbalance, fatigue, emotional baggage, traumatic past or disconnected present, all women are super-sexual. All women have the capability of enjoying sex and orgasm on that outrageous level. Yet many don’t or can’t or won’t get there.
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01.14.06
Posted in Sexual Guides at 8:05 pm by Fazman
Orgasm 101
This intensely pleasurable stage may last seconds, minutes or longer. Some women describe orgasm as a series of diminishing waves; others say it’s like a seismic event.
Mysteries and magic of the female orgasm
We live in a highly sexualized society, where everything from children’s toys to the grocery store checkout aisle are practically screaming “SEX.†But when it comes to female pleasure, there’s still a lot of mystery and misunderstanding. Most women still don’t talk frankly about sex with their doctors. We have yet to see the first rollout of a prescription drug that would be the counterpart for women of a Viagra or Cialis. Even medical researchers admit they don’t know everything about the female orgasm.
However, there’s plenty that couples can do, and many resources available to ensure she’s not getting shortchanged. Here’s an overview to help you get started down the path to peak pleasure for her.
Female Sexual Response Cycle
In the heat of passion, it’s not too likely anyone’s thinking about “stages†or compartmentalized little steps, but medical literature does spell it out just that way, in four main stages. That is, you won’t need this info so that you can give a big “woo hoo! We just hit stage two!†However, it’s helpful to know a little something about how it all works, whether you’re the woman seeking ultimate pleasure or her partner who’s aiming to please. Here are the four parts of the female sexual response cycle:
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01.12.06
Posted in Sexual Guides at 12:56 am by Fazman
The below article has been supplied to Dating Women Guides by our friends at Fleshlight and relates directly to their product The Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit (STU)
You have put in the hours. You have learned the skills. Wu Hisen’s 81, not a problem. The million dollar spot-as familiar as a ten spot. You are ready for the game. Here are five essentials to remember when performing under pressure:
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01.09.06
Posted in Sexual Guides at 5:37 pm by Fazman
The below article has been supplied to Dating Women Guides by our friends at Fleshlight and relates directly to their product The Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit (STU)
These are goals and benchmarks to set for yourself while using the STU. For most workouts, it is probably best to place the STU on a countertop/desk at an appropriate height. With one hand keep the STU stable, and begin intercourse simulation.
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01.07.06
Posted in Sexual Guides at 6:55 pm by Fazman
The below article has been supplied to Dating Women Guides by our friends at Fleshlight and relates directly to their product The Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit (STU)
When it comes to pleasing a lover, intercourse is only the tip of the iceberg. A solid knowledge of everything leading up to the sex will lay the proper foundation and make you more of a complete and well-rounded lover. Just remember, every minute you spend in experienced foreplay will pay its dividend three-fold when it comes time for intercourse. Also, if you want to take the pressure off your performance, it is never a bad idea to give your lover an orgasm before you even begin!
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01.05.06
Posted in Sexual Guides at 5:40 pm by Fazman
The below article has been supplied to Dating Women Guides by our friends at Fleshlight and relates directly to their product The Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit (STU)
As it sounds, there are a few circuit breakers throughout the body that when pressed with enough force they manually prevent ejaculation. Learning to use them properly takes a little time, but once you are familiar, these can provide the ultimate emergency safeguard against any ejaculation before you are ready.
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01.04.06
Posted in Sexual Guides at 5:29 am by Fazman
The below article has been supplied to Dating Women Guides by our friends at Fleshlight and relates directly to their product The Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit (STU)
The percentage of women who can have an orgasm from intercourse alone is well under 30%. The problem simply being that there is not enough clitoral stimulation. That is why it is important to be able to take your ‘Manus’ which is Latin for ‘hand’, and simultaneously stimulate the clitoris concurrently with penetration. The motion for stimulation is generally a circular brushing of the clitoris. Depending on your position this is not always an easy thing to do. Practice different positions with your STU, and find which ones are suited for manual stimulation.
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01.03.06
Posted in Sexual Guides at 4:34 am by Fazman
The below article has been supplied to Dating Women Guides by our friends at Fleshlight and relates directly to their product The Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit (STU)
These represent a sampling of a few different stroke patterns employed by masters of the tantric arts. They are not for everyone, but for some they provide valuable structure and focus.
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